The Memory.

     You should check out this article. Apparently, "they" have found a way to test newborns and it turns out they have memories. They can tune into parent's voices and remember the feelings they had while in the womb. It makes me wonder what else the baby can remember...and for how long. I don't personally have any memory of my circumcision, but apparently I did for some point after my birth. Also, there's the issue of sex during pregnancy. Is my kid going to remember that? I really hope not.
     Regardless, there are some things parents should do while they're expecting. Talking to the baby, rubbing the belly, even mom should be talking to herself when alone. It can help the baby's mental development in general. So, when nothing is going on, just reach over and rub that belly. It's important to be in touch with your kid, even before they're born, not only for them, but also for you. As a father, we don't get any of the bonding time that happens during breastfeeding. And unless you're Peter Griffin, I wouldn't recommend trying to breastfeed your kid. So, talking and touching and just making the effort is hugely important. It also sets the stage for you to be in the practice of trying to connect with your child, and that's what a parent is all about.
     *Special thanks to Lynn Reader for the heads up about this article.